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Why Most Pick Up Lines Don't Work...And A Better Solution

By: swingcat

 

Hey guys,

 

Many a man has been at a bar, spotted an

attractive woman and thought to himself, "Wow!

She really works those breasts, bouncy

bouncy." Next, he went up to talk to her and

within the first thirty seconds of

conversation the poor bastard went belly up as

she hammered him to jelly. He, then, walked

away hunchbacked and long faced, wearing an

existential funk ten times the size of his

deflated ego.

 

You can probably relate. I know I can. I've

been there about a billion times. Heck! - I

used to be so scared to approach an attractive

woman that I'd imagine her steamrolling me,

leaving me for road kill in her wake. How cool

is that - I'd disqualify myself without even

talking to her.

 

Meeting and approaching women is no easy

business for those who haven't mastered the

necessary skills. Let's take a look at why

this is so.

 

Realize this: We approach women in the wake of

their cuteness - and they know it. Without

them uttering a single word, they hook us in.

Half the time, even if you find them less

attractive than the stench of foot and *ass*

combined, they'll still genuinely believe

you're hitting on them.

 

This, of course, is about to change. So keep

reading. 

 

Watching most men approach an attractive woman

is as depressing as a costume ball for

demented children. The woman is like a pro

fisherman with top notch bait and the guy is

like a poor little fish, soon to be chopped

up, fried, and eaten for dinner. Even if he's

a fighter, it's too late - he's already on the

hook (Albeit, if he happens to be her physical

type, he's got a shot at success).

 

I'm also a fish - but an F-ed up, twisted,

über alien barracuda. Just when they feel that

they have me on their hook I start throwing

bait at them. They start chomping away at the

bait and, then, bam - they're on my hook and

I'm reeling them in.

 

Let me give you an example. If I'm at a

nightclub, I might stand in a crowed area -

maybe near the bar or ladies restroom. As a

woman walks by I'll stick out my elbow making

it inevitable that she'll bump into it. And

then in an overdramatic and offended tone I'll

utter: "Ow...you hurt me." Ninety-seven percent

of the time, women will stick their hand out to

touch me and apologize with some variant of,

"Oh my...I'm so sorry." I'll usually shoot back

with, "You can touch me but...only if you tell

me an interesting story or a funny joke."

 

Not only is this a bundle of fun but also a

powerful means of emotionally hooking a woman.

Once most guys find a woman attractive -

usually within the first few seconds of

meeting her - they start thinking of ways to

get her approval, win her over, and prove

themselves to her. Put simply, she has them

emotionally hooked and she knows it. Just

about anything they do to impress her, is a

sign she is reeling them in even closer.

With my example above, however, I'm doing the

opposite. Instead of me proving myself to

her, I'm making her prove herself to me. I'm

the sought after Prize, not her.

 

A caveat: In many contexts it is useful to

praise and acknowledge qualities about a woman

you find worthy. This only works, however, if

you communicate to her that your worth is - at

the very least - slightly higher than hers.

 

In every male/female interaction only one

person can be the Prize at a given time. Two

people can't simultaneously chase each other. 

There are exceptions but, generally speaking,

you want the woman chasing you as a Prize she

is trying to win over.

 

The advantage of having looks, money,

fame...or whatever is that sometimes you have

a built in hook with women. In and of it self,

though, this is not enough to hook most

women.

 

That's why the only foolproof road to success

with women is having the knowledge to

emotionally hook them regardless of having

these things.

 

I don't care if you have the best pickup

lines in the world or the funniest stories or

the coolest car or massive biceps...or

whatever. If you can't emotionally hook a

woman in the first few minutes of meeting

her, your chances of success are very slim.

 

Having, however, the skills and

understandings to emotionally hook women,

compelling them to want and reach and chase

for more of you, will give you so much power

and choice with women that the possibilities

are endless. I've taken the time and effort

to put together a book on attracting women.

And a big part of this book is dedicated to

emotionally hooking women, making them

compelled to want and reach and chase for

more of you. You won't find the lion's share

of this information in other books. Much of

it I discovered through heaps of testing 

and experimenting with real women in the

real world.

 

Realize that knowing how to emotionally

hook women will transform everything

from meeting and approaching them, to

interacting with them, to generating

massive attraction in them, to getting

physical and sleeping with them. 

 

Just think how your current success

with women will change if you take

this opportunity to crack open my

brain and get an insiders look into

how I think by downloading my book

today.  

 

Real World Seduction

 

Your Loyal Dating Coach,

 

Swinggcat

"Dr. of Attraction"

 

P.S.-If you have a success story you would

like to share, or a question you would like to

ask, or a comment you would like to make,

please email me at:

 

swinggcat@realworldseduction.com

 

Include the fist initial of your first and

last name. And include the country,

state/province, and city you live in.   

 

This whole "learning" thing goes both ways,

you know!  Oh, and be sure not to just hit

"reply" to this email, because I won't get it!

Thanks!

 

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