The Secret To How Do People Meet Other People

By: Thundercat

who'd spend his weeknights sitting hunched over the

omputer viewing internet porn instead of interacting
with society, I used to wonder:

"How do people meet each other?"

To me, this question was on the same level as "Which came first,

the chicken or the egg?" and "If a tree falls in the forest with no

go out in public and see guy after guy with their girlfriends and

wives, I would be reminded of this question.

How do people meet each other?

What is the secret?

Once I decided to take control of my life and make a concerted

that's so simple, so obvious, that I wonder why I didn't know it

You talk to them.

but this is probably the single most important notion there is when

it comes to getting a girlfriend/wife/booty call, or what have you.

If you do not talk to someone, you will never MEET them.

And you can't have a relationship with someone you never meet.

The simple act of talking to a woman can lead to so many different

things:

--You get a glimpse into her personality

--You find out what you two have in common

--You get to see if there's any chemistry between the two of you

--You give yourself an opening to get her contact information

--You establish a level of trust and comfort that will allow you to

ask her out later on

All this from the simple act of moving your mouth and having words

come out!

It is because of this concept that I wrote my book, The Art Of

Approaching, because there is so much to know about meeting women.

You can talk to them, but what if they don't respond favorably?

think of something to talk about at all?

This is where the concept of the "opener" comes in.

I've talk about openers in other newsletters before, and I go into

too important a concept just to let it go mentioned once or twice.

Without a good opener to use when meeting a woman, you're really

rolling the dice and taking a chance that what you say to her

initially will:

Maybe what you say will get her to respond with a "Yes or no"

Maybe what you have to say will get her to explain something to

continue to talk to you so you can establish that "trust and

comfort" foundation you'll need to get her information?

These are the factors you have to take into account when you go

to avoid:

"Do you know where X is?"

"Do I know you from somewhere?"

"That's a nice X you're wearing."

"Do you come here often?"

interesting, and they will not help you get to know the woman

you're talking to any better.

Here's a good opener for you to "test out" this weekend or whenever

meet, walk up to her and ask:

her an ordinary question she hears a million times a day, and

horoscopes and other new-agey stuff, so even if they DON'T read

their horoscope, they may be interested in why you're asking the

question.

If she says YES, it is easy to ask her what her sign is and what

giving you information about herself that you can use to your

advantage in the conversation.

If she says NO, ask her if she's ever checked her horoscope before

and then ask her what her sign is.

interesting..."

When she asks "Why?" say "Well, I don't want you to take this the

wrong way, but you know what they say about Pisces (or Aries, or

Scorpio, or whatever her sign is)?"

(Aries, etc.) women are the most sexual women out there."

Watch her reaction, and then follow up with a story to get the

"I know this because my ex girlfriend was a Pisces (Aries,

used to have so much fun together, doing all sorts of wild things,

just her, but every Pisces woman I've dated has always been really

role you want her to adopt (being sexual and fun and open to

doesn't agree with your assessment of her sign, you're getting her

to share with you what wild stuff she HAS done.

Before you know it, you're in a conversation!

Typically, you'll want to have three good openers to use one after

another, all with follow-up stories to get the conversation flowing.

I cover this strategy and more in great detail in my book, The Art

and unlocking the mystery of getting a girlfriend, you need to

The Art Of Approaching

The sooner you check out my book, the sooner you can go out and

meet any woman you want!

And if you REALLY want to supercharge your success with women,

be sure to take a look at my Advanced Course here:

Advanced Course

Wishing you success with women,

Joseph Matthews

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