The truth is, it doesn't matter WHAT you talk to her about, as 

long as you use the right tone and posture. 

But the reality is that when you're just getting the hang of it,

you want to say the right things to get her interested. You can

take more risks later on, but for now you want to use the best

topics.

Here's what I can tell you, though... 

There are subjects you really need to avoid talking to women 

about.

It's really pretty common sense, but sometimes when a guy's mouth

gets going, he starts to forget that he's talking to a woman, and

he starts to go into forbidden territory with his conversation.

Let's cover a few of the things to avoid in your conversation,

whether it's a first meeting, first date, or first pillow talk:

1) Do not talk about Star Trek, Star Wars, comic books, computer

games, or anything geeky or sci-fi.

Yes, I know they're pretty cool. (Except Episode 1, great

eye-candy, but just dumb.) Yes, there's all sorts of hidden

meaning, and you really think that Captain Kirk could kick Han

Solo's ass all over the quadrant.

But she will think you're the dorkiest dork to ever live on planet

Dork if you start talking about this stuff.

Trust me. Unless SHE brings it up, leave spaceships, Death Stars,

or any geeky entertainment out of the conversation. Save that for

your first anniversary, or your first Trek convention together.

(And I'm not dissing my friends that like this stuff, because I do,

too. You just don't have to broadcast it right now...)

2) Do not talk about murder, famine, war, plague, tsunamis, or

death in any way, shape, manner or form.

I don't care if you're dating Goth Girl from Hell - leave death and

violence OUT of the conversation. I can think of no topic better

suited to closing the doors of her bedroom than this. 

All it will do is raise the Ugly emotions in her, and unless you

manage this extremely well, you're doomed. 

And if this kind of talk is something that turns her on ... RUN

FOREST, RUN!

3) Do not talk about previous boyfriends or relationships of HERS. 

Don't do it. No matter what, you'll stir up every emotion that's

made her unhappy for the last ten years by going there. 

I made this mistake once after getting thoroughly nekkid with a

cute blonde and her ex decided to call and interrupt us. My first

impulse was to "talk it out" with her. 

"What's going on? What do you feel for him?"

What a bonehead. I should have just kept going and ignored his

energy. 

Now, previous relationships of YOURS are a different story,

especially if you show that you are mature about it and have good

things to say about her. But the second you turn into Bitter Boy,

you're going to turn her off faster than Oprah watching a Krispy

Kremes commercial. 

Show only your positive side. 

4) Do not talk about politics or religion.

Just don't do it. Boring. Possibly fatal to any chance of a

relationship when you get into a heated discussion over something

silly, like Global Warming. 

If she tries to bait you into a discussion of your political views,

deflect it gently with a courteous, "C'mon, you're not trying to

bore be this early in the relationship, are you? At least wait

until you've bought me a nice wedding ring."

Some women really enjoy getting into contentious discussions to A)

test you, B) get the thrill of the drama, C) eliminate you as fast

as they can just because they're really bitchy.

Don't fall for it.

5) Do not talk about possessions (your car, your great new plasma

TV, whatever), or status (your powerful position, your black belt

in Whoo-flung Dung).

Women don't want to be assaulted with your accomplishments. They

want to find out about it by discovery. This is ten times more

interesting for them because they get to play detective.

When YOU bring up something about you it just comes across as

boasting and insecurity. 

When SHE brings it up, you always seem more attractive to her. 

I spent years and YEARS compiling all the things that you SHOULD

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