Hi,

One of the most common complains women have about 

men is that they just don't PAY ATTENTION.

Seriously, have you ever had a girl ask you 

"Are you even listening to me????" or better yet,

"You're NOT listening to me!"

C'mon. We've all been there before.

Well, the ladies do have a point.  

It is very important to PAY ATTENTION.  

Now, I'm not saying you gotta start listening to everything they

say.  Actually, I'm saying that you have to start paying attention

to how they RESPOND.

I call paying attention to how a woman responds to you

"calibration."  By allowing yourself to see how she is reacting to

what you're doing, you give yourself the information you need to

either escalate what's working, or fix what isn't.

This is very important.

And it ALWAYS applies, no matter what the situation.  Whether

you're just meeting a girl for the first time, or you're out on a

date, or you're in bed together, you always want to be calibrating.

Calibration mostly has to do with the reading of body language. 

You gotta pay attention to the signs she's sending you (even though

she may not know she's sending them!).

For instance, say you see a girl standing around with her arms

crossed, and she's got a big scowl on her face, and looks like

she's having the worst day of her life.  That will help you decide

if you want to approach her, and how to approach her.

Would you want to approach a girl when she's all closed off and

negative like that?  Or would you prefer to look for an easier

target?  

If you decide you do want to approach her, how would you go about

doing it?  Maybe you could ask her "What's wrong, you look like you

lost your best friend?"  Then go about cheering her up or making

her laugh.

When you're talking to a girl, pay attention to what she's giving

you.  Is she leaning back?  Looking away?  Not really engaging in

conversation?  Then she's not that into what you have to offer her.

But what if she's leaning forward?  Are her pupils dilated?  Is her

head tilted?  Is she playing with her hair?  Smiling a lot?  Is she

touching you?  If so, then chances are what you're doing is working

and you should be doing more of it.

Women will tell you exactly what you need to do to get them.  You

just have to PAY ATTENTION!

Once you've got that down, you'll be able to tailor your approaches

to each individual woman and make them much more effective!  If you

want to learn how to meet any woman you want, no matter what your

looks, age, or financial standing may be, check out my book The Art

Of Approaching right now by clicking below:

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After all, meeting a woman is the first step to romance!

And if you REALLY want to supercharge your success with women,

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To your success,

Joseph Matthews